To you who sent me an ask idk if you wished for me to answer privately or not and im on my ipod so i can only answer publicallu so here ya go:

I’m going to assume that if you’ve lasted 2.5 years, you’re not typically an irrationally jealous person. Shit like that doesn’t work out unless the relationship is really immature and I’m going to guess that if you are self-conscious enough to try to get to the bottom of this emotion, then immaturity is not exactly your problem. I’m going to step out on a limb here and suggest that the specific action of his “likes” and comment are also not the problem, but rather something that you are perceiving instinctually and probably rationally. It is very okay and normal for him to be attracted to other girls. To not be so would be biologically unnatural and if he pretended he was uninterested in other women would be positively fishy. What a relationship is, is finding a bond that is more meaningful than any other bond and taking the steps to make sure you do not betray that bond. I’ve been on both sides :/.

Listen to your gut. Your instincts are much more thorough and correct than most “logic”. Remember the balance between nature (horny beasts) and commitment (respecting the pairbond!)

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